PARTNERSHIP

According to the dictionary, it means, the state or condition of being a partner; or a joint interest; or, a participation of interest bonded by law or condition.


So, recently, I saw a few partnership fell apart due to overzealous member of the partnership or a member with greed or ill-intentions towards their interest.  Before the partnership began, they were all good friends, buddies and even refers to each other as 'brothers'.  When all turn sour, those affections fade away and friends became enemies.


Not much difference with life partners.   Both have the same interest that goes beyond love, family, social and other matter paradigm of the human context.  Similarly, these partnership may sour due to actions that contradicts the condition of the partnership.  


So, what happens if the partnership sours not because of any unlawful acts, 3rd-party intrusion or unfulfilled obligations??  What happens if the partnership failed due to a disillusioned member whose a figment of his/her imagination took over control??   Sometimes, members of the partnership think they have done too much that they deserved a break from being part of the partnership.  They may include the word 'deserve' in every sentence, claiming immunity.   For the record, nobody has the right to use the word 'deserve' that describes themselves.  It is a merit that is given, only when all parties involved agrees to it.  


Sometimes, in a partnership, it is more than often that partners communicate to each other in a manner of medieval society.  Filled with disagreement, hatred and dissatisfaction.  However, the truth is that they can't be without each other.  Often being asked why does it progress into such an uncomfortable situation, while back then, the partners has proved that they can communicate in a very civilized manner.  The fact that they can be much nicer to friends, acquaintances and clients, but not to their partner, is really puzzling and unacceptable.  Why can't partners be nice to each other??  Why do they raise voices, shout, or even get upset over small things, like ordering a meal, or something??  WHY??

It is always good to reflect why members began partners in the first place.  In fact, if the members can be nice to their friends, clients or strangers, why can't these members of the partnership be nice to each other??  They need each other to to progress and trying to outdo one another is not gonna help in the partnership.  They shouldn't forget that they are partners in a ship ............ together-gather.

Was talking to Steven Tyler recently about stuffs. Somehow the marriage topic came from nowhere and we were discussing about some things related to it. At one stage, I was asking him what actually happen between him and Barrick. After 17 years together they went separate ways. The following are account details of his side of the story........

Steve - people like us in this industry are always mistaken for our way of life. When we met long time ago, we were both crazy and wild, and partying was a part of our life. When we decided to get married, we promised to support each other and that we understood each other's commitment to the industry. She told me she will support my work and fully understood my role when I'm working. However, throughout the years, I changed and put family life as priority, hence the cutting down on partying and other stuffs. Even at that, I am always questioned everytime she saw photos of me or the band partying after our gigs. Worse, any female who appears in our photos will be ridiculed to have an affair with myself or the band members, despite their healthy family life.

To cut story short, it went on for many years but I kept mummed about it and let it pass. Until recently, I had a gathering of industry's greats and went with my band. She insisted I was with some other women. She claims that I missed partying so much that left the family (herself) to go back to my old ways.

The entertainment industry is always projected or seen to be partying at all times. Therefore, when we are working, the general public think we are partying. I'm not denying that there were booze, and laughter and an amount of fun, but do they really know how we partied??

From then on, it was downhill.........

Steve refuse to talk about it and the disappointment in his face showed. Not because of his separation but how words were turned against him. He loved Barrick so much that he didn't want to really tell his part of the story and just moved on. Drugs and alcohol came back, and so does the music....... but not his love of his life.

Moral of the story is ......... Rockers are human too and have feelings. Women will say whatever they want to make sure they are never at fault.



btw, the article above is just a figment of my imagination.

As much as I can elaborate, today I'm not gonna do that. It's gonna take too much time but it'll never get to the head. So, I'm just gonna let the picture do the talking.

It that's not enough...... WATCH THIS!!

How to protect your email address on internet

How to protect your email address on internet

Lately, have you started to receive a lot of junk mails and couldn’t figure out the reason for it.Well, this could have happened because you have written your email on a website ,forum ,blog or might have subscribed to a spammy website. Email marketers use special bots that are programmed to automatically collect email ids from websites.

If you don’t take precautionary measures you might become their victim and your mailbox will be filled with thousands of spam emails daily. If you have to share your email its better to encrypt it so that bots can’t identify it. You should also password protect and encrypt your emails before sending them for additional security.

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• Go to Srm.in website.
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QUOTE OF THE DAY





"Every girl (and boy) is beautiful........ except for the ugly ones, obviously!"

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by the way, some of the stories here are made-up just for humour purposes. some words are written for personal gains and satisfaction, while orders are meant for things only the author knows. taking this blog seriously can cause sleepless night.

YOU HAVE BEEN WARNED!

Recently, the Singapore talk show started its new season with a topic about Singapore Soccer. The panel was talking about what need to be done for Singapore soccer and the S-league, even after 17 years, the local soccer league hasn't really get to where there wanted it to be. They were also talking lots about marketing, money sponsors, support, bla, bla, bla.......

On a different note, the prodigal son of Singapore soccer, Fandi, is somewhere doing the same thing he set out to do many years ago. To play and help Singapore soccer. Without the help of his country's authorized bodies, Fandi had opened doors, hearts and unite people, establishments, organization and many more. Yet, he doesn't get the support from his own countrymen.



The FAS always talked about support, money, marketing and the business aspects of making soccer work for Singapore, but they never talk about how FANDI can work in their structure. Maybe they should see Fandi as a solution, rather than a problem. After all, he is a sportsman, and not a businessman. I'm sure those who knows his story and ventures will agree with me.



If only there were private companies who are more than willing to splurge and invest in organizing an event to pay tribute and commemorate FANDI, that is really gonna blow-off some people 'at the there'....... make the event BIG, for everyone, a festival to support native Singaporean sportsman. Get the country together like how they use to be, make them reminisce the good ol' days and celebrate life. When people get together, business opportunities come rolling, brands wants to get involve in showcasing their product. SPEND MONEY TO MAKE MONEY......... and that's a PLAN.

Easier talk than done..........?? If they can make Tan Pei Ling minister, why can't they say THANK YOU to FANDI??

likes outdoor sports and long walks??

It's kinda funny when you read people's profile where they are suppose to 'say something about themselves' or 'Interests'..... many penned down things like .....

taking long walk on the beach, likes travelling, passionate, loves animals, humble and down to earth, enjoy outdoor sports.... bla, bla, bla......

The truth is ........ what the fark is wrong with these people?? Taking long walk on the beach?? Really? I do believe at times we enjoy the long walk... but, if you're one of those regular people who always does that, there's is something wrong with you. Stay away my friends!!

Who doesn't like travelling? We all do. But first, which part of travelling are we talking about?? The long holidays kind of travelling or the daily routine of travelling from home to work, getting squeezed in the trains, and if you're lucky....... the breakdowns and a free tour of the underground tunnels?? Which one again?? And of course, don't be an idiot, who doesn't like holidays??

Sometimes, I do get quite worried at individuals who claims to be humble and down-to-earth. 99% of the time, they aren't. First of all, you don't tell people that you're humble. It's something that people say about you, something that is awarded for being a likeable person. Telling people that you're humble and down to earth, is like "I see the most beautiful person..... whenever I look in the mirror".

I'm not gonna comment about liking 'outdoor sports'. Some bloody smart Alec wanna argue saying that shopping is also a sport. Whatever la.

HAVE YOU HUGGED A FAMILY MEMBER TODAY?



Its one of those nights where I can't put my head down, instead, everything else come to mind. While pondering about the day's on-goings, I remembered about a conversation with a friend. We were discussing about the importance of work and family. Which should come first......?

For most of us in Singapore, the answer is quite simple...... of course it's WORK. With the high cost of living, a demanding social paradigm and low family values, without hesitation, work is the main priority in our Singapore-life.

Wait!!! Before you disagree and shake your head, please stop and look at yourself in the mirror. Its just normal for us human to say something and react the other way. Its just how we are socially taught to behave, talk and act. Just like any profile-filler in any of the social networks. Whenever they tell you to say something about yourself, most will say.... "humble, down-to-earth. Funny, adventurous, likes taking long walk at the beach, bla....bla........bla......" But the truth is...... well, you decide.

Back to the topic.........

Most of us would say that work is more important as it helps to put food on the table, roof over the head and money for the family to do things together. Without enough money or any of the luxuries, family life would be hard and most misunderstandings would be the cause of 'money'. Frankly, I kinda agree with this theory. What we mostly forgot is....... not about THE 'money', but , how MUCH money do we need to work for.

If a person has to work extra jobs just to put food on the table and pay for a roof, well, it's just obvious that work has to come first in order to survive. What about those who already has everything? Those extra work and hours are just to feed the human hunger for other luxuries such as branded clothing, amenities, expensive holidays and the ability to tell others your affordability. Would you still put family second? Be reminded that our son or daughter will only be young once. They will only be the '2-yr old-lil-devil' once in our lifetime. As much headache as it can cause, would you really want to miss that??

There are some out there who lost their family due to work. Parents went separate ways to pursue success or happiness at work. However, there are also the lucky ones where they lost their family, then, got a second chance with a new family. To those people, are you willing to risk it again? Do you still blame others? Or are you willing to look in the mirror and admit that you were part of the problem?

Like they say...... DIFFERENT STROKES FOR DIFFERENT FOLKS. However, one thing is still the same...... there's nothing like the love of a family.

So....... have you hugged a family member today??